The ultimate Adult Friend Finder (AFF) Site review

Adult Friend Finder (AFF), which is a mix of a dating site, a site for hooking up, and a kinky social media platform, offers everything you need to find your perfect partner. AFF is not your grandmother’s dating site. It’s swinger-friendly, and offers many possibilities for couples of all romantic persuasions. But does it live up?

First Look

AFF registration is quick and easy. It is also more queer-friendly than other hookup sites such as You are given multiple choices for your gender and attraction from the beginning: you can choose to be a (cis-man), (cis-woman), or trans* member. However, for now you cannot identify trans*man or trans*woman. You can also be a couple, with one man and one woman, or with two women or more men. You can choose as many options as you wish when you select the person you are looking for.

A new screen appears when you sign up. It asks you to enter your credit card information in order to purchase a Gold Membership with tiered prices.

  • 39.95 for 1
  • Three Months at $80.85 (26.95 per monthly)
  • 6 Months at $239.40 (or $19.95 per month).

Although it is frustrating that you don’t get to see the entire site before they ask for your credit card information, you can still click the mouse and look around for free to get a feel of it before you go full throttle. It quickly becomes apparent that the site is best if you have a Gold Membership. This gives you unlimited access messaging, photos and chatrooms.

Like many other websites, this website is susceptible to scammers. I received numerous bot-like messages as soon as my account was created. Despite the fact that I had no profile photo or information, they wanted to get to know me. But if you approach them with caution, you should be OK.

The Dating Pool

AFF is known for its hookups. It’s full of sexy men from all walks of life looking to have fun. To find the right person for you, you can filter through thousands by age, looks, preferences and even gender.

AFF offers couples transparently, unlike other dating and hookup websites. You can even search for them. The couple is a unique and exciting way to be doted upon and eaten by two people at once. This site is full couples who are looking for third or fourth partners to share their joy. These couples are swingers, unicorn hunters and doms and subs looking to be loved by others.

AFF is an extremely kink-friendly dating site that was created with kinksters in mind. You can search by kink and filter by people who live within 100 miles of your location. It may sound a bit far but it isn’t so bad when you consider that these people are arranged alphabetically by nearest first. There are many kinks that you can filter through, including cuckolding and needle play. This will give you the best chance to fulfill your kink fantasies.

You can choose who you want, even if your goal is to have some vanilla lovin’. Everyone on the site is open about their intentions, which helps avoid a lot the miscommunications that you might find on Tinder. You will find many genuine, sex-positive individuals here who are eager to meet you in real life or as long-distance lovers.

Unique Perks

AFF is unique because of a number of features. Your own userpage is a fun and flirty throwback to Myspace. You can view the activity of someone, recent added friends and mutual compatibility. You can view more details and photos of someone if you upgrade and pay. However, most profiles photos are NSFW.

AFF allows you to cam and share your experiences with others. You can earn points by camming and redeem them for prizes such as vibrators, bondage kit, or a month’s gold membership. You can also redeem these points for cash at $100 per 100,000 points (that’s $0.002 each point).

This is not the only way you can earn points. AFF encourages and promotes sexy community engagement. They give you points for confirming your identity for 500 points ($1) and creating a blog post worth 20 points ($0.04). You can also respond to an initial message for 5 point ($0.01). These points are not only cool for users to get cool bonuses but also help create a sense of sexy community and keep them active.

You can filter the people you see by whether they are online, nearby, VIP, new, VIP or kinky. This site is truly non-judgmental and welcomes all sexual preferences.

The catch

Very little is included in the cost of many desktop-based dating websites. Without paying, you can’t communicate, exchange information or see more than the first photo of someone without paying. Membership costs $39.95 per month. This is a steep price if you are just looking to hookup. It also feels steeper when you consider that AFF and its parent company were hacked in 2016. The hack exposed 412 million accounts’ sensitive data.


AFF, a great space for queer and kinky women, is available to you if you are willing to pay a fee. It’s also a place that has sex-positive vibes and can help you get the sexy job you want. You have to consider whether it’s worth spending money on a site like FetLife or Feeld, or if it’s better to use one of the free ones. You have the freedom to choose. It gets a rating of 4.5/5 stars.