Let’s talk briefly about NSA and relationships. The NSA does not monitor everyone’s phones and collect data to hack the leader of Germany. NSA stands for No Strings Attached. It doesn’t mean that you have to feel or commit. Just a carefree, fun relationship. What can you do to create a fun, no strings attached relationship that is free from drama?
Do not expect to make or receive breakfast
Let’s face facts, everyone loves a warm and hearty breakfast. Ty Dolla Sign, a rapper, has gone so far as to ask “You go cook the eggs cheesy and them grits??” Pop culture might pressure women to make breakfast for their men, and that’s a good thing. However, it is too much to cook breakfast in a first-time relationship. If you don’t want to be a part of a relationship that offers more, then you should avoid going to a breakfast spot.
Do not spend the night with the first hookup
It is not a good idea to spend the night after a strict causal (and without strings attached-style!) hookup. It is best to get out of a hookup as soon as possible. Your partner may just want to rest in their bed and continue their lives, not be entertained by other people. On the other hand, you should do a great job of not appearing dependent or attached. This goal is achieved by leaving shortly after hooking up. It’s also a quick and easy way to get to the breakfast bulletin.
Expect the Unexpected
We have to be real, sometimes things can get a little crazy when there are no strings attached. Expect the unexpected. You and your partner may want to try new things in the bedroom. Maybe you’ll find a unique place to meet up. It all depends on how you feel. While some people hook up to relieve stress and get out of their heads, others use them to explore new places or fulfill sexual desires. Everyone is different and can have different expectations and methods for casual no strings hookups. It’s important to expect the unexpected.